12-Strategies To Survive Your Family During Holidays Without Drunk-Dialing Your Therapist

Christmas is not a game people! You cannot just wade into these situations and not be prepared. This holiday is to celebrate the birth of one of the most peaceful beings to ever walk this earth. So put on your friggin armor!!! 

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Why Creatives Are Kick-Ass Confidence Gods (Pt. 1)

And ode to The Creative: This particular installment is simply an honor bestowing clarification of what Creatives are, what Creatives do –– and why Creatives are built to get their ass kicked more than you ever will have the guts to. You could learn a lot from them.

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The Cowardice of Cynicism

We all have that one cynical friend. They sit in the corner at parties, with some unspectacular glass of liquor in hand, a dangling cigarette in the other, choking their immediate environment with seductive swirls of poison. Why do we keep them around? I’m cynical about cynics.

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Homeless In A House

Houses are simply walls built around open spaces to protect the occupant from the outdoor elements. But if certain indoor elements are not present in those encased spaces, there will be no home to speak of for the occupant. Never be "home"-less, whether in a house or without one. Give your soul a shelter. And be an unerring shelter to someone else's.

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Imaginary Friends, Digital Acquaintances and Artificial Lives

Having a diet largely filled with faux food, i.e. food products, can lead to very real diseases. Having a life filled with faux human contact can lead to very real emotional dis-ease, personal deep dissatisfactions and life degradation.

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Falling In Love Over Great African Literature

My friend intimated how Chinua Achebe’s literature was so impactful, it led to him getting married and starting a family. He just shared with me how he and the woman who would become his wife, actually first fell in love over Achebe’s skillfully carved prose while in college together.

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Morning Tips: Smoothing Yourself Out At The Top of Your Day (Establishing Yourself)

Your entire day blossoms from the first establishing moments of your day. You need an anchor and an anchoring process to stay rooted, sane, in control of yourself, and in control of your day. Without it, the winds of life will blow you all around the day like a kite.

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Citizen Soldiers: The Non-Violent Protestors Who Protect Our American Freedoms

A lesson in patriotism, enlisted, and un-enlisted. After looking into the core heart and courageous character of our soldiers this Veterans Day, I noticed another section of our society standing in “unified formation” with them –– both populations are staunch protectors of our freedoms.

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Un-Protect Your Heart: The People Who Hurt You Are No Longer Here

[To them] You're now just a gender lump of all of the faces they've dated before you, and that's when they start preparing for mortal combat.

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